Wednesday, April 20, 2016

7 Major Cities Of India And Their Uglier Sides We Tend To Overlook

It is understandable that every city has its sewers infested by scumbags who eventually spread the plague. What is not acceptable is the attempt to sweep the dirt under the carpet and pretend like everything’s fine. Let’s not choose to be ignorant when the truth glares at us. Let’s get uncomfortable.


1. Calcutta




The peace-loving, culturally enriched city of Bhadroloks has quite an ugly side –Sonagachi, the largest red light district in Asia. The existence of this Godforsaken area is an open secret and the need to address to the carnal desires of humans have led to an agreement to let the area be.

The hinterland of buying and selling human flesh in broad daylight earns Bengal the crown of the being the human trafficking hub of the country. A 2012 reportshowed 14,000 adults and children going missing from the state – most of them believed to be devoured by the sex market. Sexual abuse of minors is a regular sight in those streets – something, the rest of the city conveniently overlooks.

2. Delhi








The pathetic irony lies in the statement that Delhi hai Dilwalon ki (Delhi is for those with a heart). Continuing to remain as the rape capital of India, strengthening its rights to be so after the 16 December incident, Delhi is is one of the worst place for a woman to live in but that’s old news.

If there’s something that can get dirtier than the rape and murder of Jyoti Singh on that night, it’d would be the mis-allocation of the Nirbhaya Fund, a measure to ensure women’s safety in the capital. An amount of Rs 3000 crore of the fund has still remained utilized. It’s hard to say if the fund has been “laying idle” or simply blown up.

3. Bangalore

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The lovely city of Bangalore boasts of its nightlife, the posh localities, and everything hip and happening. However, with all that apparent prosperity, you’d know there is socio-economic dump-yard somewhere near. Well, to achieve the foreign like feel of the city, the officials proposed a drive to clear Bangalore off all beggars.
The way the beggars were rehabilitated was nothing less than a concentration camp which resulted in the death of 264 of innocent lives – just to keep Bangalore beautiful. Nirashrithara Parihara Kendra, the rehabilitation center had bodies lying for three days in the dormitories before they were discovered – they were better off asking for alms in the streets.

4. Chennai

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When the city was facing the devastating floods in December, 2015, some people where trying to make the most of it. While robbers mugged people carrying relief funds and sold them off to shops who in turn sold them at a premium, the AIADMK tied banners of Amma to the vehicles coming in with relief from Karnataka.
However, the worst part is that the relief program was subject to caste based discrimination as well. Allegedly, access to clean water was blocked and the relief programs remained concentrated on the upper caste areas as well.

5. Mumbai

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In the midst of the glitz and glamour of Mumbai, often the hard facts are conveniently overlooked. If there’s something that has been eating up the city like termites, it’s the growing menace of the land mafia. Not that it hasn’t gone protested but there have been instances such as an activist being stripped and beaten up until she fell unconscious in broad daylight in Malwani.
Several reports have indicated that majority of Mumbai slums are under the grip of the land mafia who act as slumlords, occupying government land by letting thousands of slum dwellers live in the areas. However, these slums can be demolished at the blink of an eyelid if the slumlord sniffs profit and thousands lose their home overnight. 

6. Hyderabad

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Hyderabad’s politics has shamed the city once again when the as the suicide of PhD scholar, Rohit Vermulla indicated a protest to the discrimination against Dalits.  Students who raised their voice on the issue were beaten up, molested and kept locked inside the campus with no access to food or electricity. Neither did the media have any access to the campus.
The professors, supporting the students implored the assailants question them instead of beating them up but were paid no heed.  3500 students had been sleeping hungry, thirsty and without electricity, locked down inside the University campus.

7. Ahmadabad

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Although, Gujarat is supposed to be one of the most developed states of the country, Ahmadabad is no place for the poor. The Ahmadabad slums are some of the worst poverty stricken areas of the country with most people still struggling for clean water and electricity. Daily wage earners fall sick under such adverse conditions, costing them dearly as it reduces their working days.
10,000 slum dwellers were asked to relocated, their houses being sold off to private developers for the beautification project of the Sabarmati river. About 2500 families living in the slums, believed to be the remains of the 20,000 families who found shelter in these areas during the 2002 riots were asked to evacuate in 2013 without any promise of rehabilitation for the sake of Gujarat’s development.

Every big city hides terrible secrets as we let ourselves stay distracted by shopping malls and multiplexes.

Thursday, February 12, 2015

Paranormal Activity in Dwarka Road


Well, I really don't want to enrich any sort misconceptions. But, I think this is worth a share.
This was spotted in Dwarka near pipal road in Sec 7 / Sec 10. Live video shot by Delhi Police. She has been spotted many times between 1am - 2am.


Tuesday, February 4, 2014

What sites should you use to earn money? Where should you start?

Where do I start? What sites can I use to earn money?

There are tons of sites out there; but here are the ones that seem to be some of the bigger earners. I tried to include each type of website.
There are tons of sites out there; but here are the ones that seem to be some of the bigger earners. I tried to include each type of website.


  • Mechanical Turk I don't actually use this site myself but I hear that it is an extremely high earner. How it works is people on this site post tasks (hits) for you to do and they pay you for doing it. NOTE : You must live in the US and be 18 or over.
  • Cash Crate I like this site better than SwagBucks because I feel like there is more stuff to do on it. For beginners: it is your basic GPT (get paid to) site were you complete offers or surveys for cash.


  • What will earn me the most money?

    This is one you will have to decide for yourself. A lot of people say Mechanical Turk but I think they are wrong; I think it's whatever site you feel the most comfortable with and you can earn the most with. Here's a tip: if a site claims to be "fast easy money" than its not.

    So I earned a gazzilion dollars, what do I do with taxes?

    Any website where you have over $600 of earnings from, should be included on you taxes in the form of a 1099 NOTE : This only applies to the US

    CHOO CHOO!! Are we allowed to hop on the referral train?

    It appears that they are allowed as long as the post is informative and is not just for the point of starting a referral train.

    How do I get referrals?

    Here is a nice referral randomizer site made by a redditor. referomatic.

    Why haven't I earned a million dollars in one day using these sites?

    These sites take time; contrary to belief most are not alternatives for real jobs. If you managed to make a living off of these sites well than good for you! But to get to that point it takes hard work and dedication.

    How much can I earn?

    This all depends on the site(s) you use. A lot of people who use multiple beermoney sites earn up to 100$ a month; some even earn more than that. It all depends on what sites you use and how much work you put into the sites.

    But I see people boasting about how they earned 28478656475674.38 dollars!!

    Those people are either lying or dedicated a large portion of their life to earning money online. It takes time, sweat, tears, and (at times) blood to get to that point. It does not happen overnight.
    Now for a list of sites I recommend! Feel free to comment a site you use and I will check it out and might add it here!
    • Cash Crate : A nice alternative to SwagBucks. NOTE : It seems to be available in most countries and to anybody over the age of 13. It may be limited if you live outside of the US.


    Get Paid To Do Free Offers!

    • SwagBucks : Very similar to Cash Crate. Do offers and surveys for cash. NOTE : It too is available if your over 13 and seems to work anywhere. It may be limited if you live outside of the US.
    • Mechanical turk : Complete tasks (hits) for cash. NOTE : Must be over 18 and live in the US.


    • Slicethepie : Write reviews for songs and earn cash. NOTE: No age requirement and works in all countries.
    • Postloop : Earn money by posting in forms. NOTE: Works in any country and no age limit. There might be an age limit for some forums though. Earn Money Posting in Forums

      • Prizerebel : A combination of cash crate and swagbucks. NOTE: 13 and up and you are good. It appears to work fine in any country but people have complained about severely limited offers outside of the US.

      Wednesday, May 22, 2013

      Kewt Cat Kisses

      Aren’t cats just so kissable? I love to kiss their little nose and forehead. What about you? When a cat snuggles up and taps his wet nose to you, it is an affectionate gesture and a way for them to say “I Love You!” When a kitty is 
      slowly blinking his eyes as if he is getting sleepy, it is also a sign of affection which is similar to a blowing kiss. You can return a kiss by giving them a nose bump or blinking your eyes slowly at them.
      It is hard to believe that cats are often misunderstood as aloof and unsocial creatures. Below is a collection of kitty kisses photos that will definitely prove those people wrong.






































      Tuesday, May 21, 2013

      Reason Why Your Life Will Be So Much Easier In 2013




      COOL THINGS THAT’LL MAKE YOUR LIFE MORE EASIER


      Here are some creative and cool ways to make your life more easier in this year.Presenting to you the biggest reasons why your life will be so much easier! Enjoy. :)



      How I Know I Love You


      I know I love you because I want to get you soup when you’re sick. Not only do I want to get it for you, I want to make it for you so you can eat something made with love instead of with crushed insects and preservatives. I know I love you because I want to slap anyone who hurts you, even if it’s your boss. I want to hold you when you’re having a nightmare and kiss the spot that hurts when you bump into something. I know I love you because I want you to be healthy even when you’re not sick, and that’s why I keep bugging you to change your crappy eating ways even though I know you’re over hearing about it.



      I know I love you because I worry about the stuff only people who love you worry about, like the amount of quality sleep you get a night and how much you drink when you’re sad and whether you’re getting enough vitamin B. Like probably more than your mom does, I’m not sure she especially cares about vitamin B. I know I love you because I freak out when you’re obviously disintegrating yet too stubborn and too “I’m fine” to actually go to the doctor, even though I do that sort of thing myself.



      I know I love you because I think you’re beautiful even when you’re not. And I don’t mean good-looking, I mean beautiful, beautiful like there’s something pervasive and magnetic about you that comes through even when you look positively bad. I think you’re beautiful even when you’re hungover and puking your guts out, covered in hives, or when half your face is purple and swollen because you decided to cosplay Fight Club and punched yourself in the eye too hard. I know I love you because I think you’re beautiful even when you’re wearing Crocs and that’s no small accomplishment.



      I know I love you because I can’t abandon you, not even when you’re being a dick. Not even when you’re being ten dicks. Normally I don’t put up with that sort of behavior but I love you and I understand you’re stressed or frustrated or PMS-y so I’ll let it slide for a little bit. But I also love you enough to call you out on it when it gets to be too much. I know I love you because only people who love you care to say something about your bad behavior instead of saying nothing and just calling you an asshole behind your back.
      I know I love you because I want to listen, I really do. I don’t have anywhere to be that can’t wait for a while and I’m not checking my phone, in fact turned it off and buried it in the cushions the moment you said you needed me. I’m here for you and that other thing can wait.


      I know I love you because I’m truly concerned with how your life turns out. It’s not just that I want you to “be happy” or attain that vague self-helpy “inner peace” bullshit we’re all supposed to aspire toward, I want you to express yourself and be fulfilled and feel like you’re living life for a good reason, not just passing the time. I want everything to work out for you the way it should and I want to be there for it, occasionally with champagne.
      And I’m genuinely convinced that I love you because I want to do things for you that I don’t want to do for anyone, ever. Examples: I’ll babysit your loud sticky children when you have them. I’ll bring you ice water and take care of you when you eat too much ecstasy like an idiot. I’ll even stand there patiently with a video camera as you attach piranhas to your nipples when you’re broke and trying to get on Jackass, all that and more. That’s how I know I love you, and I hope you know it too.

      Monday, May 20, 2013

      11 Things That Mean More to Men Than "I Love You"

      Learn how to show a man you love him in ways he'll truly appreciate.
      photo credit: Thinkstock                                                                                                                     
      Actions Speak Louder

      You've heard it before: Men are visual; women are verbal. Men are impulsive; women like to analyze things. Men are from Mars; women are from Venus. So since husbands and wives are opposite in many ways, it makes sense that male and female hearts swell for different reasons. While you probably smile when your mate says, “I love you,” those same three words from you may not do much for him. Here's, 11 gestures that show you care and why they’re more meaningful to the guy in your life.


      1. Your Undivided Attention

      "When the male brain sees you checking your iPhone during dinner, it interprets that as ‘I'm not important,’” says marriage therapist Mike Dow, PsyD. That’s because men’s brains evolved to do one thing at a time while filtering out all other stimuli, he explains. Even though women function differently (you know firsthand how well you multitask), your man will appreciate you focusing solely on him. “It says, ‘You are my priority, and I love you,’” adds Dr. Dow. So make eye contact while he’s talking and limit interruptions.





      2. His Favorite Meal

      That old adage is true: “The best way to a man’s heart may be through his belly,” says Dr. Dow. “Knowing what he likes to eat without having to ask him demonstrates how well you know him. And the couples I’ve treated who know small details about each other have the happiest marriages.” But maybe your husband likes everything you make! In that case, try breaking out the pumpkin pie. Research by Alan Hirsch, PhD, of the Smell & Taste Research Foundation in Chicago has shown that that sweet scent arouses men more than other aromas. 










      3. Wearing that Dress He Loves You in
      Dolling up sends the message that you still want to look good for him, no matter how long you’ve been together. “Men’s brains are wired to respond to visual cues more than women’s brains,” says Dr. Dow. “Seeing you in that sexy dress shows him you desire him.” And a scarlet number may work best. A study by researchers at the University of Rochester in New York found that ladies in red are an aphrodisiac to men.


      4. Taking Care of Yourself

      Shedding stress, eating right, exercising, quitting smoking and even pampering yourself may sound like treats for you, but they’re also ways to show you love him. “This communicates, ‘I want to have a long, wonderful life with you, and I’ll do whatever it takes to prevent you from experiencing the grief of losing someone,’” says Dr. Dow. What better motivation is there to get healthy?

                                           5. Complimenting Him


      Throughout time, men have had to fight and provide to attract and keep women—and they aren’t afraid to pull out the masculinity measuring sticks when potential competitors come around. Let your husband know you think of him the way he’d love to be seen: as a provider, problem-solver, handyman, sex stud and knight in shining armor. "Genuine compliments on his looks and strength confirm that you admire him, which equates to love,” says clinical psychologist Andra Brosh, PhD. When he pops the lid on the jam jar with ease, mention that you enjoy having such a strong man around. He’ll beam—and chalk it up as a reason you chose him over all those other guys.




      6. Encouraging Him to Take Time for Himself


      While you may not hesitate to ask for your time, your husband may have trouble verbalizing what he needs. Occasionally, suggest he take a day to relax with friends, play video games, work on the car or just sleep in. “This shows support and allows him the freedom to do what he needs to be his best self,” says Dr. Brosh. Your husband will see hassle-free, worry-free, chore-free time as a loving reward.

      7. Asking His Advice


      Your man wants to feel like an important part of your world. On top of that, he’s a hard-wired problem-solver. Ask for his opinion on how to approach the boss for a raise, and you prove you trust and value his judgment. “When a man can fix something, he feels competent and useful,” says Dr. Brosh. “Asking for advice shows that you rely on him and that there’s a place for him in your life. Need, dependency and love go hand in hand.”

      8. Thanking Him for the Little Things


      Next time your husband drives the kids to school or takes out the trash, express your gratitude. “We’re rushing through life, we forget to notice the good deeds and guys forget to say what they need from you, but they have feelings, too. So say, ‘I really appreciate that,’” says licensed marriage and family therapist Carin Goldstein, creator of BetheSmartWife.com. Giving thanks will improve his attitude and infuse your relationship with a feel-good energy.



      9. A lengthy hug.

      Instead of a quick peck before running out the door, choose a lingering embrace. “While women connect verbally, men connect more through touch,” says Goldstein. “Hug for at least seven seconds. It’s a long time, but there’s something about that number where the hold ends up really giving him something.” And there’s no doubt you’ll like it, too.



      10. A quickie.


      Making love for an hour is nice, but once in a while, have sex for just a few minutes, suggests Dr. Dow. Although women get that loving feeling with a rise in oxytocin (what you release during that post-coital cuddling session), men feel it with an increase in dopamine, the chemical they release during sex which stimulates the mental pleasure-and-reward center, explains Dr. Dow. “I hope that most of the time, your lovemaking is full of foreplay and romance. But other times, just have sex." 

      11. Letting Him Vent



      The latest office drama or family fight plays on his emotions more than he’d like to let on. So create a safe space for your guy to let his walls down. “Listen to his worries or problems without trying to fix them,” advises Dr. Brosh. “It shows him you don't deem him weak or inadequate and affords him a place in the relationship to share that part of his life. Moreover, it shows you care.” If he comes home from work in a bad mood, ask him if he wants to let it out. If not, that’s fine—but he may need a prod to open the floodgates.